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May 10, 2009

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Jazz

Wouldn't it be facinating to observe who self-selected which track? And, to know why?

Lance_K

Although cultural competence fast-trackers may enjoy spending time with some of their own, it is their presence among the medium-to-slow trackers that offers the greatest promise of benefits. Part of the desired skill set is to coach others. There is only so much to be gained by preaching to the choir.

In the airport security analogy, what would be ideal is if the more experienced travelers coached the less experienced ones while they are both waiting in line. However, it is easy to imagine that the less expereinced travelers would find the attmept to mentor them as an intrustion, but that is only because the defaulted norm is for everyone to keep to themselves. There is a parallel here in business. If I observe a coworker saying something culturally insensitive, am I more inclined to say nothing or to see it as a coaching opportunity? If I choose to coach, how will the coworker respond? A lot depends on the norms at that business. If cultural coaching only ever occurs in a threatening manner (a reprimand followed by mandatory cultural sensitivity training), then spontaneous coaching is indirectly discouraged. If I approach someone with the intend to offer some friendly coaching, they may recoil thinking that I am looking to get them into trouble. I have yet to work in a place where non-threatening correction is the norm. Mostly, "lesser" gaffes are completely ignored, and serious ones treated with a hammer.

Linda

Thanks for sharing your thoughts, Lance. Yet again, your insights have helped me to see this issue from a new angle.

My objective was to move people away from blaming diversity when things go wrong. Blaming diversity for workplace conflict is a little like blaming computers because so many folks have difficulty mastering new technology. It is far better to train workers than to throw away our promising new assets.
I've received that I wish to share with regular readers. Thanks to all the coaches who took time to write:
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Of course it would be great to have diversity taught in the workplace....but you know and I know in the economic climate we live in right now, very few companies will put this into their yearly budget. It is going to have to come from donated time...from offerings from the community. I like your ideas....realistically right now I see people just trying to get jobs, keep jobs and keep their families together. I donate my time to a school in the Third Ward of Houston where it is a struggle to survive in the jungle of drugs, crime, etc...and our school is all about just offering safety to the children.
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. Of course, you correctly note that the airport security lines are based upon a person's level of experience and skill. But learning about and respecting diversity is a much different process. It seems to me that separating the quick learners from others actually benefits the fast-trackers while keeping others mired on their own muddy road. The slow learners need role models from whom they can learn and be inspired to change. That requires them to be mixed together. A community changes when the entirety of its members is lifted up however slowly. It is the responsibility of the strong to raise up and compensate for the weaknesses of others. Otherwise an elitist class forms of those who are "enlightened" (with all the dangers that entails) while the slow learners develop anger and resentment toward the fast trackers as they accentuate their weaknesses.

And here's the Jewish basis for this notion of community: On the holiday of Sukkot (the fall harvest holiday that also celebrates the wandering of the Israelites in the wilderness), it is the custom to shake a lulav and etrog (the lulav is a palm frond and the etrog is a citron/lemon; attached to the lulav is a myrtle branch and a willow branch). They are held together with the lulav in one hand and the etrog in the other.
The rabbis explain that the etrog symbolizes people with wisdom and good deeds (it has smell and taste). The lulav symbolizes people with wisdom but no good deeds (it has taste, the dates, but no smell). The willow symbolizes people with good deeds but no wisdom ( it has smell but no taste). The myrtle symbolizes people lacking wisdom and good deeds (it has neither smell or taste). They are held together representing the awareness that a community is comprised of all these types of people and that the hope is the taste and smell of the etrog will permeate the others and improve the entire community.

Just some thoughts... Thanks for stimulating some thinking on this end.

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